Common social norms and customs to be aware of
In Hungary, there are some cultural customs and social norms you’ll want to keep in mind. Based on insights from expat forums and social media groups like “Expats in Hungary” on Facebook or InterNations, here are some key points to guide you.
Hungarians place a strong emphasis on formal greetings, especially when meeting someone for the first time. A handshake is the most common way to greet, for close friends and family, cheek kisses are a common gesture, though this may vary by personal preference.
In Hungary there is also an emphasis on punctuality, being on time is considered a sign of respect. Whether it’s a business meeting, social gathering, or even a casual coffee date, punctuality is expected. If you’re running late, it’s polite to inform the host or the person you’re meeting in advance.
Hungarians take great pride in their traditions and national holidays. For example, March 15th (National Day), August 20th (St. Stephen’s Day), and October 23rd (1956 Revolution Memorial Day) are significant public holidays, often marked by parades, cultural events, and family gatherings. Keep in mind that businesses and services may be closed on these days.
When dining in Hungary, it’s polite to wait for the host to say “Jó étvágyat!” (Enjoy your meal!) before you start eating. In restaurants, tipping is advised, and a 10-15% tip is generally expected unless a service charge is already included in the bill. If you’re invited to someone’s home, bringing a small gift like flowers, wine, or chocolates is a thoughtful gesture.
Hungarians tend to value modesty in public spaces. Speaking too loudly or causing a scene is generally frowned upon. Public displays of affection are acceptable but should remain moderate. Additionally, always give up your seat on public transportation for the elderly, pregnant individuals, or those with disabilities.
Hungarian bureaucracy can be complex and time-consuming, so patience is key. Many expats recommend joining online communities such as Facebook groups or InterNations to get advice on navigating paperwork and finding trusted translators or legal assistance when needed.
Hungarians may initially come across as reserved, but once you establish a connection, they are warm and hospitable. Participating in local events, festivals, and joining expat meetups can help you build a social network and integrate into the community.